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From
E, "a loving grandmother", February
2009
He
Giveth and He Taketh
For
me, there is no greater joy in life than a
child; whether it be a devilish boy or a sweet
innocent girl or a devilish girl and a sweet
innocent boy.
As we mature in life; only then do we appreciate
life; in all its glory. We should only succumb
to death in our old age; not in our youth.
So when a young child dies - whether from
an unfortunate accident or illness - we ask
"why" … why has this innocent
child been taken from us? No one can feel
the pain a parent or grandparent endures from
the death of his/her son or daughter. The
broken heart does not heal; it only tries
to understand and accept this meaningless
tragedy.
Unfortunately I underwent such a tragedy not
long ago, when my 8 year old grandson Jacob
died suddenly and unexpectedly. As a grandmother;
not only do you mourn for your grandchild;
but watching the pain in your child's face
and hearing his heart suffering - that no
one can imagine. Jacob's tireless days were
spent chasing after every chance to generate
laughter. And though now we can never see
Jacob play in the park, he'll still play on
forever in the park in our hearts.
Grieving is extremely difficult without the
support of loved ones around you. I would
wish to be involved with other grandparents
who have also suffered from a loss of a grandchild.
Please help us engage in such a program.
Thank you.
E - "a loving grandmother"
From
Penny and Barry Krowitz, June 10, 2007
Dear
Paul,
You should be very proud of the enormous contribution
you have made to countless bereaved families
in the GTA over the past eighteen years. It
is very significant that you are retiring
after eighteen years as we look at 18 as our
symbol of life 'chai'. I won't pretend to
figure out the meaning and the symbolism of
this, but I am sure there is a deeper meaning
somewhere.
All the very best
Penny & Barry Krowitz
From Lawrie and Debby Kaplan, June 8, 2007
Paul,
we are so proud of the wonderful work that
you have done with Bereaved Jewish Families
of Ontario.
Many
people have benefited from your experience,
knowledge and compassion over the past 18
years. You have given so much of yourself
to others.
We wish you many years of good health and
ability to continue the excellent work you
do for the Jewish community and the community
at large. Your fine work is certainly a tribute
to Shelley’s memory.
We love you.
Lawrie and Debby (Kaplan)
From
Ted Berman (a good friend of Paul’s).
We taught together and went through thick
and thin together. June 1, 2007
I
am so happy that The Bereaved Jewish Families
of Ontario are honouring Paul for his many
years of service. Paul is good person and
a great friend of those in need. Paul is my
very close friend that I have known for many
years. I look forward to being at the ceremony
honouring Paul.
From Ruth Howard, May 17, 2007
Thank
you, Paul, for the caring, yet competent,
manner in which you conduct the sessions for
bereaved parents. Your patience, skill and
kindness contributed to the success of the
program. Seven years after I took the "course"
(and ten years since the loss of my beloved
Ben z"l), I continue to benefit from
your positive influence.
Thank
you, and best wishes on your retirement,
Ruth Howard
From Larry Bell, Senior Director, Robin
Hood Camps, and Pearl Bell
North York, May 15, 2007:
I was pleased to note that Bereaved Jewish
Families of Ontario will honour Paul Goldstein
on Sunday June 10.
I
know Paul joined your group in order to help
himself and still gains strength from being
able to share and learn from so many of you.
However, I also know that Paul has given much
to others who have come to rely on your organization.
He is a role model for us in Society. His
dedication and involvement in the work of
your organization is well noted in the Jewish
Community and beyond.
Paul
is a humble individual and I am certain he
did not look for or expect this honour, but
we all recognize how deserving he is.
Congratulations!!!
From Bruce Armitage, Toronto, Jan. 6, 2006:
Thank you so much for sharing the information
on your website. What I have learned from
you further increases my respect and understanding
of Judaism and Jewish rituals. Well done!
From Rhonda Lickver,
Toronto, Sept 19, 2005:
I want to thank you for your support over
the years. I lost my sister, my best friend,
at a very young age (39) while trying to hold
my parents and family together. It does not
seem to get easier for me. Ten years and it
feels like yesterday. A sibling group would
have been very valuable to me. My heart goes
out to everyone who continues to suffer silently
as I do.
From Sheila Browne, Toronto, July 23, 2003:
It has been 23 years since I lost my son Kevin.
Scrolling through the website brings tears
to my eyes. You have all done such a wonderful
job. I know this will be a source of comfort
and knowledge to those who have suffered the
'worst loss'.
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